| Korede & Esther Komaiya
Building A Great Marriage – Part 3
“And if a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.”
Structured in society is the fact that for you to emerge a professional in any field there is a process. You can’t become a Medical Doctor without going through the process of becoming one; for you to be a Lawyer or an Engineer there is a process; for you to be a husband or a wife there is also a process. It is unfortunate that a lot of people just wake up one morning and found themselves in matrimonial lane without the knowledge for it. The first foundation for marital failure is ignorance; they don’t know that there is great mental and emotional difference between them and their spouse, so they engage in unnecessary fights with potentials for divorce. You must grow up into maturity and turn your eyes off traditional and western view of marriage, leaning on the original manual – THE BIBLE!
The Good News Translation of our opening scripture renders, thus: “If a family divides itself into groups which fights each other, that family will fall apart.” According to The Living Bible Translation, “A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.” You don’t build anything by fighting it; you claim you want to build a great family and you are fighting your spouse daily, how could that be possible? If you must build a great marriage you must stop fighting and deliberately protect your family from division. A lot of people don’t know how destructive strife is; the enemy can’t destroy any marriage without first introducing strife and division. You must grow into the level of decision where you resolve not to fight your spouse and recruit your children into it, no matter the offense.
Protect your family from strife and work against division.
KEEP IN MIND
You don’t build anything by fighting it.
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